What hurts more?

Everyone would probably have experienced the discomfort of seeing someone leave, let alone seeing a loved one leave. Then, too often atimes that we ask ourselves, what went wrong in this whole issue, and ending up with placing the blame on one or more of the 3 parties, yourself, your loved one and external parties. But after all this blame-placing, all that is done is nothing more than the forcing of unhappiness upon oneself, and too many atimes ending up hating the person that you have once laid your head upon.

It is absolutely inevitable for the above to happen, and it is without a doubt true to feel hurt to see your loved ones leave. But what is the point of holding onto a relationship when one party is already not willing to be with the other? Would it not be true that it would hurt significantly more to see your loved ones sad? Someone once said,

"If he/she's meant to be, he/she'll return."

On this merry occasion, I wish for the ability for all to put behind all unhappiness and to walk forth, towards a new place. Though it would be a place of which happiness dwells, but also more reasons to wallow, we should put behind what would be a road of no return, and not look back when a decision has been cast.

Merry Christmas.